Many believers in the mainline church have a misunderstanding of the word
fornication, they believe fornication means strictly sex before marriage when
in fact, the definition of fornication in the Greek is “Pornia” meaning, “Illicit
sexual intercourse, adultery, homosexuality, intercourse with animals, sexual
intercourse with close relatives.”
So when we read fornication in the Bible it is pertaining to any sexual immorality. I know I am going to get a lot of hate for my belief of this, but I must voice it. I believe being a whore or whoremonger is a sin, without a doubt. If you are sleeping around and not committing to someone of the opposite sex than you are on your way to Hell. Purity is an important thing. God’s design is that one woman be with only one man sexually and that one man be with only one woman.
Please read what I am saying and don’t accuse me of being a whore as many in the past have… I do not believe there is such a thing as premarital sex, I believe when you have sex that person you had intercourse with has become your spouse at the moment of penetration. Sex is marriage, so there cannot be such a thing as premarital sex. This is a church tradition.
I believe the way I perceive intercourse is not a compromise, but makes sex perceived more seriously. Instead of people saying, I had 5 boyfriends/girlfriends before I married my husband/wife makes it sound less evil.
Once you enter into a covenant, which is sex, that person becomes your spouse. This makes sex much more serious. It’s not just, “I committed premarital sex” it is “I entered into a marriage covenant.” Everyone you have ever had intercourse with became your spouse.
I, of course will back up my reasoning with Bible.
Genesis 24:63-67 ~ 63 And Isaac went out to meditate in the field at the eventide: and he lifted up his eyes, and saw, and, behold, the camels were coming. 64 And Rebekah lifted up her eyes, and when she saw Isaac, she lighted off the camel. 65 For she had said unto the servant, What man is this that walketh in the field to meet us? And the servant had said, It is my master: therefore she took a vail, and covered herself. 66 And the servant told Isaac all things that he had done. 67 And Isaac brought her into his mother Sarah's tent, and took Rebekah, and she became his wife; and he loved her: and Isaac was comforted after his mother's death.
So when we read fornication in the Bible it is pertaining to any sexual immorality. I know I am going to get a lot of hate for my belief of this, but I must voice it. I believe being a whore or whoremonger is a sin, without a doubt. If you are sleeping around and not committing to someone of the opposite sex than you are on your way to Hell. Purity is an important thing. God’s design is that one woman be with only one man sexually and that one man be with only one woman.
Please read what I am saying and don’t accuse me of being a whore as many in the past have… I do not believe there is such a thing as premarital sex, I believe when you have sex that person you had intercourse with has become your spouse at the moment of penetration. Sex is marriage, so there cannot be such a thing as premarital sex. This is a church tradition.
I believe the way I perceive intercourse is not a compromise, but makes sex perceived more seriously. Instead of people saying, I had 5 boyfriends/girlfriends before I married my husband/wife makes it sound less evil.
Once you enter into a covenant, which is sex, that person becomes your spouse. This makes sex much more serious. It’s not just, “I committed premarital sex” it is “I entered into a marriage covenant.” Everyone you have ever had intercourse with became your spouse.
I, of course will back up my reasoning with Bible.
Genesis 24:63-67 ~ 63 And Isaac went out to meditate in the field at the eventide: and he lifted up his eyes, and saw, and, behold, the camels were coming. 64 And Rebekah lifted up her eyes, and when she saw Isaac, she lighted off the camel. 65 For she had said unto the servant, What man is this that walketh in the field to meet us? And the servant had said, It is my master: therefore she took a vail, and covered herself. 66 And the servant told Isaac all things that he had done. 67 And Isaac brought her into his mother Sarah's tent, and took Rebekah, and she became his wife; and he loved her: and Isaac was comforted after his mother's death.
So Rebekah took a veil
and covered her head just like brides today, it is a sign of respect for your
husband as your headship. Now remember that Rebekah and Isaac have just met,
they are not married yet, no wedding ceremony has taken place. Come to see in
verse 67 that Isaac takes Rebekah into his tent and she became his wife. The
act of Isaac taking Rebekah into his tent to have sex with her made her his
wife. Sex made her Isaac’s wife. When they became one flesh physically by
penile-vaginal intercourse they also became one flesh spiritually by establishing
a soul-tie.
Genesis 2:24 ~ Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
Mark 10:8 ~ And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh.
Now to further my point that sex makes you married, becoming one flesh to another…
1 Corinthians 6:16 ~ What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh.
So if a man hires a harlot which is a prostitute and pays her for sex, that man becomes one flesh with that prostitute, he becomes married to her even though he is only having a one-night stand with her, even that he has no intention of staying with her for his life, even though he has not had a marriage ceremony with her… She becomes his wife when he has sex with her.
Obviously the two didn't get married, but something spiritual happened before God’s eyes. When two people are joined physically in the act of sex, they are joined by souls tied in a covenant of marriage. Often there are men who have a one-night stand with a prostitute and still think about that girl even years later. That is because a soul-tie had been created.
This is why God designed sex for those who will stay with one another for life, once you have sex with someone you are to honor that act as the start of your marriage to commit for life.
Sexual intercourse is supposed to be for the committed. Whether or not you're a Christian, it's wise to keep this rule for the physical reason of sexual transmitted diseases (STDs) and the spiritual reason of unholy soul ties.
Genesis 2:24 ~ Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
Mark 10:8 ~ And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh.
Now to further my point that sex makes you married, becoming one flesh to another…
1 Corinthians 6:16 ~ What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh.
So if a man hires a harlot which is a prostitute and pays her for sex, that man becomes one flesh with that prostitute, he becomes married to her even though he is only having a one-night stand with her, even that he has no intention of staying with her for his life, even though he has not had a marriage ceremony with her… She becomes his wife when he has sex with her.
Obviously the two didn't get married, but something spiritual happened before God’s eyes. When two people are joined physically in the act of sex, they are joined by souls tied in a covenant of marriage. Often there are men who have a one-night stand with a prostitute and still think about that girl even years later. That is because a soul-tie had been created.
This is why God designed sex for those who will stay with one another for life, once you have sex with someone you are to honor that act as the start of your marriage to commit for life.
Sexual intercourse is supposed to be for the committed. Whether or not you're a Christian, it's wise to keep this rule for the physical reason of sexual transmitted diseases (STDs) and the spiritual reason of unholy soul ties.
What I mean by unholy
soul ties are people who have sex and do not have the intention to stay
faithfully together for life. Unholy soul ties is spiritual bondage between one
person and another, which if your partner has devils, can cause demonic bondage
to transfer from them to you.
This is why demon-possessed Satanists
have sex rituals, to transfer their devils from themselves to another. You are not only opening yourself up to a curse for your own sexual
sin, but also an unholy soul-tie with a person who is tormented by demons.
Don't think to yourself
that the person you are having sex with is clean spiritually from the demonic
or clean physically from STDs. When you have sex with someone that has had previous
partners, you are having sex with those previous partners, and you are having
sex with those previous partners previous partners so what we have is a pyramid
of people that you are having sex with in the one sexual act.
For example, if you’ve had 2 sexual partners and your partners had each had 2 other sex partners that is 6 partners you have had sex with, and their partners had each had 2 other sex partners that would be 14 people you have had sex with, and their partners had each had 2 other sex partners that would be 30 people you have had sex with, and their partners had each had 2 other sex partners that would be 62 people you have had sex with, and their partners had each had 2 sexual partners that would be 126 people you have had sex with just in the act of having sex with 2 people.
This is a serious matter; this is why with sexual immorality come sexual diseases along with depression because our hearts are going against God’s ordained ways by establishing unholy soul-ties.
A holy soul-tie is a woman coming together with a man and staying together faithfully until death, preferably in God’s will, both the woman being a virgin and the man a virgin. This is God’s will, but sadly we live in a society that is sexually immoral where it is a rarity that both the woman and man are virgins.
For example, if you’ve had 2 sexual partners and your partners had each had 2 other sex partners that is 6 partners you have had sex with, and their partners had each had 2 other sex partners that would be 14 people you have had sex with, and their partners had each had 2 other sex partners that would be 30 people you have had sex with, and their partners had each had 2 other sex partners that would be 62 people you have had sex with, and their partners had each had 2 sexual partners that would be 126 people you have had sex with just in the act of having sex with 2 people.
This is a serious matter; this is why with sexual immorality come sexual diseases along with depression because our hearts are going against God’s ordained ways by establishing unholy soul-ties.
A holy soul-tie is a woman coming together with a man and staying together faithfully until death, preferably in God’s will, both the woman being a virgin and the man a virgin. This is God’s will, but sadly we live in a society that is sexually immoral where it is a rarity that both the woman and man are virgins.
Every time you have sex
with someone you establish a soul-tie and you bring those soul-ties into every
new relationship, possibly harming your partner because they will feel that you
are not loving them with all your heart, I have experienced this.
Having soul-ties will even ruin your capability for intimacy, to enjoy intimacy. This is why prostitutes tend to be very numb and robotic towards sex because they have so many soul-ties.
Having soul-ties will even ruin your capability for intimacy, to enjoy intimacy. This is why prostitutes tend to be very numb and robotic towards sex because they have so many soul-ties.
We must repent of all unholy
soul-ties we have established in our sexual immorality, every husband, every
wife that you married in the act of sex. Soul-ties are very hard to cut; to let
go of the emotional attachment that was made in the act of sex will need the
help of the Lord.
Let’s go to Jesus’ words now…
John 4:15-19 ~ 15 The woman saith unto him, Sir, give me this water, that I thirst not, neither come hither to draw. 16 Jesus saith unto her, Go, call thy husband, and come hither. 17 The woman answered and said, I have no husband. Jesus said unto her, Thou hast well said, I have no husband: 18 For thou hast had five husbands; and he whom thou now hast is not thy husband: in that saidst thou truly. 19 The woman saith unto him, Sir, I perceive that thou art a prophet.
So Jesus knows that this woman
is with a man, the Lord calls him her husband, telling her to go get her
husband. Why does Jesus consider him her husband? Because she has had sex with
him and God knows this.
The woman then says she has no husband, Jesus said she did though, but she does not consider the man she was with her husband because even though she was having sex with him she wasn’t married. He then rebukes her and says that she has had five husbands.
John 4:28-39 ~ 28 The woman then left her waterpot, and went her way into the city, and saith to the men, 29 Come, see a man, which told me all things that ever I did: is not this the Christ?
The woman then says she has no husband, Jesus said she did though, but she does not consider the man she was with her husband because even though she was having sex with him she wasn’t married. He then rebukes her and says that she has had five husbands.
John 4:28-39 ~ 28 The woman then left her waterpot, and went her way into the city, and saith to the men, 29 Come, see a man, which told me all things that ever I did: is not this the Christ?
So then she calls unto
people saying that the Lord told her everything she ever did, all of the sexual
relations she had in entering into covenants with men.
Now, even though I believe that sex is marriage and that there are no wedding vows given in the Bible or an example of a wedding ceremony that doesn’t mean I don’t think that people shouldn’t have a wedding ceremony to announce it to friends and family to keep them accountable in their commitment.
A ceremony is wise, but it can be as simple as an announcement. A ceremony doesn’t make you married in God’s eyes, a piece of paper known as a marriage certificate doesn’t make you married in God’s eyes. Becoming one flesh makes you married in God’s eyes and you should not sin against your own flesh by being a whore or whoremonger.
1 Thessalonians 5:22 ~ Abstain from all appearance of evil.
1 Corinthians 6:18 ~ Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
I pray you have been edified by this article. May the Lord bless you and your family.
Now, even though I believe that sex is marriage and that there are no wedding vows given in the Bible or an example of a wedding ceremony that doesn’t mean I don’t think that people shouldn’t have a wedding ceremony to announce it to friends and family to keep them accountable in their commitment.
A ceremony is wise, but it can be as simple as an announcement. A ceremony doesn’t make you married in God’s eyes, a piece of paper known as a marriage certificate doesn’t make you married in God’s eyes. Becoming one flesh makes you married in God’s eyes and you should not sin against your own flesh by being a whore or whoremonger.
1 Thessalonians 5:22 ~ Abstain from all appearance of evil.
1 Corinthians 6:18 ~ Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
I pray you have been edified by this article. May the Lord bless you and your family.
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